The first time I hooked up with a guy was when I was 19. I had never thought of having sex with a male before bc... well... I guess I had a lot of internalized homophonia. I remeber having thoughts of hooking up with boys in high-school, but brushed it off, because I thought "I wasn't gay." Oh boy was I wrong! In reality, I love cock & I love guys, I just can't imagine myself being fucked by a guy if I am also, a guy. That's when my transgender awakening happened, at 17 lol.
At 19, on E for a year at this point, I hooked up with a 48 year old man who was a shitbag missile repair specialist for the military. He also perfusley tried to explain why he isn't gay bc I'm a woman, while continuing to talk transphobic comments about other trans woman. Not only did he lie about wearing a condom during sex and lie about his cock size, having a micro penis, (Nothing wrong with micro penis, but the catfishing was not cool) he lied about his intentions! He wanted me to marry him!
The worst of it was when he told me about his divorse and daughter. His daughter was only 2 years younger than me at the time, 17, and he kept trying to give me money to be his "trad wife." We wanted me to drop outta school and be his house wife!! No joke!!! Anyway... i learned real fast that grindr is where you find some shitty men. For good and worse, that wasn't the last time I had hooked up with shitty cis - man on grindr, sadly it was just the first.