> Here's a basic rule: pronouns are important, genitals are not. Took me a while to figure that out, because personally? my genitals are waaay more important to me than my pronouns. If there was a group of girls whispering about me "oh my god, I want to suck HER penis" I'd be like "heeey, how you doin'?" I don't give a fuck about what pronouns they're using; I am much more interested in verbs.