Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Fishmé on December 06, 2024, 12:01:01 am
Non-Con
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Mozai on December 06, 2024, 10:38:04 am
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Non-con
Someone explained non-con fantasies to me as "getting what you want without being punished for wanting it."
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Fishmé on December 06, 2024, 11:07:54 am
Oooo that's an interesting way to describe it. Please elaborate?
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Mozai on December 06, 2024, 11:55:14 am
This a flammable topic; I must step carefully.
If a woman wants to get railed so hard she's walking funny, and people find out she has thoughts like this, then she loses status/power/support in many areas, and loses it for the foreseeable future (years!). Add to this how damned unfair it seems when men expressing such desires openly and getting applauded for it. So: get squeezed, spun around, filled like a volcano cake, get that euphoric high... but you don't have to suffer being called a "bad woman" because the responsibility isn't yours. If it was plausibly against your desires, then you can still enjoy the support of the community as a "good girl who wouldn't do such things." It's not a perfect defense, but fantasies don't have to be perfect.
The bitch of it is: in scenarios where there's *real* non-con, the woman gets accused of "asking for it" and gets that community support withdrawn even though she's a genuine "good girl" who got targeted by a crime... a fucking shame because recovering from damage and violation is when you need that community support the most.
People who want it need to be regarded as not wanting it, and people who don't want it get punished as if they wanted it... "consensual non-con" is a paradox but it makes sense in context (because the context is utterly terrible).
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Fishmé on December 06, 2024, 12:00:44 pm
Damn, I feel called out. Lmao.(Kidding not kidding). That's a pretty good interpretation, I'd say.
For a long time, I thought I was doing cnc, but I wasn't, because I didnt understand consent. I played into this dynamic you are talking about, for years, but it devolved into self harming at some point along the line. Rather, it's a very confusing game to have been raped and now crave being raped. Non-con for me, while a fetish, is almost an unhealthy addiction at this point.
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Fishmé on December 08, 2024, 08:17:26 pm
If a woman wants to get railed so hard she's walking funny, and people find out she has thoughts like this, then she loses status/power/support in many areas, and loses it for the foreseeable future (years!). Add to this how damned unfair it seems when men expressing such desires openly and getting applauded for it. So: get squeezed, spun around, filled like a volcano cake, get that euphoric high... but you don't have to suffer being called a "bad woman" because the responsibility isn't yours. If it was plausibly against your desires, then you can still enjoy the support of the community as a "good girl who wouldn't do such things." It's not a perfect defense, but fantasies don't have to be perfect.
The bitch of it is: in scenarios where there's *real* non-con, the woman gets accused of "asking for it" and gets that community support withdrawn even though she's a genuine "good girl" who got targeted by a crime... a fucking shame because recovering from damage and violation is when you need that community support the most.
People who want it need to be regarded as not wanting it, and people who don't want it get punished as if they wanted it... "consensual non-con" is a paradox but it makes sense in context (because the context is utterly terrible).
If a woman wants to get railed so hard she's walking funny, and people find out she has thoughts like this, then she loses status/power/support in many areas, and loses it for the foreseeable future (years!). Add to this how damned unfair it seems when men expressing such desires openly and getting applauded for it. So: get squeezed, spun around, filled like a volcano cake, get that euphoric high... but you don't have to suffer being called a "bad woman" because the responsibility isn't yours. If it was plausibly against your desires, then you can still enjoy the support of the community as a "good girl who wouldn't do such things." It's not a perfect defense, but fantasies don't have to be perfect.
The bitch of it is: in scenarios where there's *real* non-con, the woman gets accused of "asking for it" and gets that community support withdrawn even though she's a genuine "good girl" who got targeted by a crime... a fucking shame because recovering from damage and violation is when you need that community support the most.
People who want it need to be regarded as not wanting it, and people who don't want it get punished as if they wanted it... "consensual non-con" is a paradox but it makes sense in context (because the context is utterly terrible).
If a woman wants to get railed so hard she's walking funny, and people find out she has thoughts like this, then she loses status/power/support in many areas, and loses it for the foreseeable future (years!). Add to this how damned unfair it seems when men expressing such desires openly and getting applauded for it. So: get squeezed, spun around, filled like a volcano cake, get that euphoric high... but you don't have to suffer being called a "bad woman" because the responsibility isn't yours. If it was plausibly against your desires, then you can still enjoy the support of the community as a "good girl who wouldn't do such things." It's not a perfect defense, but fantasies don't have to be perfect.
The bitch of it is: in scenarios where there's *real* non-con, the woman gets accused of "asking for it" and gets that community support withdrawn even though she's a genuine "good girl" who got targeted by a crime... a fucking shame because recovering from damage and violation is when you need that community support the most.
People who want it need to be regarded as not wanting it, and people who don't want it get punished as if they wanted it... "consensual non-con" is a paradox but it makes sense in context (because the context is utterly terrible).
If a woman wants to get railed so hard she's walking funny, and people find out she has thoughts like this, then she loses status/power/support in many areas, and loses it for the foreseeable future (years!). Add to this how damned unfair it seems when men expressing such desires openly and getting applauded for it. So: get squeezed, spun around, filled like a volcano cake, get that euphoric high... but you don't have to suffer being called a "bad woman" because the responsibility isn't yours. If it was plausibly against your desires, then you can still enjoy the support of the community as a "good girl who wouldn't do such things." It's not a perfect defense, but fantasies don't have to be perfect.
The bitch of it is: in scenarios where there's *real* non-con, the woman gets accused of "asking for it" and gets that community support withdrawn even though she's a genuine "good girl" who got targeted by a crime... a fucking shame because recovering from damage and violation is when you need that community support the most.
People who want it need to be regarded as not wanting it, and people who don't want it get punished as if they wanted it... "consensual non-con" is a paradox but it makes sense in context (because the context is utterly terrible).
Being the meth using, abusive boyfriend in a Lana Del Ray music video.
Hot??
You know it. I'm somewhere in here.
Wait... really?!
I'm being meta and absurd at the same time. I'm not literally in the video, but my fetish is. "Being the meth using, abusive boyfriend in a Lana Del Rey music video," is also me being meta and absurd at the same time. I fetishize the story presented in the video: a dark fatalistic tale about being a thug, getting fucked up with my stripper girlfriend.
It's not a completely sexual dynamic for me either. Some kind of angry spirit lives inside me. I want to bang Lana Del Rey, but that part of me wants to live a self-destructive life style with her.
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: Fishmé on March 08, 2025, 09:58:03 am
Hot af
Title: Re: Fetishes thread
Post by: rachel on March 19, 2025, 02:29:39 am